[futurestar1]

Why do some SFs choose not to use it? In regards to flip-flopping between orgs, if you never said anything, then no one would ever know that you changed your mind. So, SFs, I ask you, how do you view discretion and what does it mean to you? What do you think it means to the organization?

I am assuming "flip-flopping" means people who have actually submitted at a formal rush, been turned down, and then try another organization. To me discretion means that some people are on a need to know basis and there are just some things they don't need to know. Being discreet means being mindful of the consequences or your actions and adhering to a code of modesty and silence in terms of your interest.

If you were a legacy, would you tell?
I am not a legacy, so I am not sure.

If your blood sister was an AKA perp would you tell or would you let my Sorors think she was real?

I would hope that her perpertrating would not be used against me later, cuz I would have to tell. And I would have a long talk with my sister about why she feels the need to pretend to be something she is not.

Have you ever thought about perping? What made you decide against it?
I have never thought about it. Everything that goes on in the dark eventually comes to light. Secondly, I want it for real and the right way, not for pretend. Perping only reaps the benefits of wearing 'nalia and doing a call. If that were my only reason for being interested, I guess I can see how that could lead to perping. Personally, I want more than that.

In your own words, what is the difference between a necessity and a luxury?
Necessity : food, clothing, shelter, water, education (for me personally) Luxury: anything else God sees fit to bless you with

If you have to ask what the "right" reason is for joining an organization, should you even be thinking about joining?
No, ma'am.

What, if any, is the advantage of doing community service in a group as opposed to doing it alone?
One person can only do so much. Reaching a larger group of people, affecting change on a greater scale, and a shoulder to lean on when you feel weary are some of the advantages I can think of off the top of my head.