Jae,

Making a hasty desision is never an acceptable reason to "change" brotherhoods - if we could. I think almost everyone here would agree that making the desision to pledge one house over another is a desision you will have to live with. Fraternity life is for life! And it should be a desision given much though.

Each fraternity/sorority has thier own unique aspect. And each offers many outlets for you to have an effect on the organization and the quality of brother/sisterhood. If you are comparing your brotherhood with something you can't have, you'll always come up short in your expectations of your fraternity. Instead focusing your energies on making your brotherhood better can make a difference. Explore why you choose to join, and what you want out of a fraternity. Can you bring that to your fraternity?

I wish you the best of luck,

Artimis