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Originally posted by btb87
The same SF can answer this question as well, 'cause I could use some clarification:
If you have always wanted Sorority ABC and instead go to Sorority XYZ, what makes Sorority ABC "not right" for you anymore? What are you looking for in any Sorority?
Knowing what you know about your organization of choice, what would make you a "fit"?
Okay, let's say you were chosen for the organization that you want, but another person that you really don't like at all was also chosen. How do you handle that?
What are your favorite colors? (I have a reason for asking this seemingly crazy question.)
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In terms of changing your sorority choice, I was speaking moreso on those who may have wanted to join ABC in UG, then some years pass & you re-visit the sorority option and see that you may not be so inclined to your original choice. A person may not agree with the national programs (i.e, feels the sorority should be doing something different), the feel of the chapter/women, etc, may not be in the same vibe that you are. People change.
To answer your other question about being selected with someone I don't like...what can I do about it? The org saw something in her that apparently I can't or don't see. I would have to be polite, but we don't have to be friends. Business is business. Handle it.