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Originally posted by AKA2D '91
gurrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrllllll..we are >>>here<<<
My questions:
Why do SFs ask "bold" questions on the internet, but won't DARE ask a Soror in person?
Why do SOME SFs ask some of the most ridiculous questions without searching for the answer, if a answer exists?
Why do SFs 'flip flop' orgs they are so-called interested in?
Why do SFs "claim" they want to be a member of XYZ, then become a member and DON'T DO JACK?
Is it worth thousands of dollars to become a member of XYZ, when you can do community service for free?
Do you really want to become a member of an organization for the RIGHT reasons, or are you trying to get a man? get attention?
Why is it that SOME SFs purport to know everything there is to know about greekdom, but have yet to become a member?
Why put on a facade to try to get sponsorship?
Why look to an organization to define who you are? Why not have a sense of self BEFORE you join?
Why is the sky blue?
Why are there tsunamis?
LMAO! Lemme stop! 
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#1 That's an easy one...b/c it's easy to be bold at your computer. If the question turns out to be inappropriate, it's easier to read it from some unknown cyber persona, then someone who actually knows you
#2 Some SF's are lazy. It's that simple. Or they don't know any better. Not everyone has the same home training, work ethic or common sense.
#3 Do you mean go from ABC to DEF org? There are a lot of different reasons for that happening. My take is that for whatever reason, SF decided that ABC org is not for her. Speaking from an older SF perspective, I am certainly not the same girl I was back in UG, than I am now. My views, experiences, & expectations have all changed. Would it be such a stretch to think that maybe my interests would change also? But I do know that SF's change for reasons that are less than stellar, (denied membership, hookups in other orgs, etc)
#4. Interesting...b/c at some point in time ALL members of ABC org were SF's. A member would have to answer that question.
#5 No...but I would wager that SF's aren't trying to get in ABC org for the community service activities. You are right, I do that for free.
#6 What are the RIGHT reasons? Isn't that a subjective question? While we may all crinkle noses at "trying to get a man", or "going to the party"(obviously not the correct response)...what becomes the right answer? As you already stated, community service is a mute point. Sisterhood is a major component that most SF's are probably looking for. So what is beyond or the right reason?
#7 Lack of opportunity, lack of resources, less than a majority vote?
#8 Facade?? Some SF's are fake. They don't know how to be themselves. There is nothing wrong with having your A-game on in the presence of...but coming completely out of character...they know that if they are really who they are...(uncouth, dramafied...hot mess)...they will be DENIED.
#9 These SF's are not mature enough. Adult/Womanhood does not necessarily happen at 18 or 21. If SF's are trying to find themselves, they still won't find it in an org. That comes from inside. You are a mess before, and u still gonna be a mess in your letters.