Ya know, I was looking for a thread like this to bump. But I have a different take/question.
My mother's friend's daughter("Mary") goes to my alma matter, and she wants to go through recruitment. Mary barely graduated from high school (got caught plagerizing her senior paper) and less then steller academics all around. She also is very catty, vindictive, and is not one for the rules. Her mother informed me the other day that she also received phone calls from the police about Mary (probably regarding underage drinking/drinking in public) and has had community service "a few times" since starting school last semester.
Then I get asked to "put in a good word at your sorority for Mary." There is no way that one I would write a recommendation for this girl. In fact, part of me wants to write my chapter and warn them against her.
Should I write a warning letter? An anti-recommendation letter? I don't think she would be the correct fit for my chapter, but on the off chance, should I write or inform someone at my chapter?
Advice please.
