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Originally posted by ManndingoNUPE:
Whew, I feel for you, but as everyone here has said, it could just be a test to see how badly you want it. I will be honest with you, it will be harder for you becuase of the fact that you are white. I could sit up here and lie to you, but it would do you and I no good.
If this org is in your heart, then you might make it one day. But on the flip, if these women do not want you as thier sister, then you won't be at that chapter. I would still persue it though, and see where it goes.
While I think that it is wrong to turn someone away becuase of thier race, I will always side with a chapter to decide who they want to call sister or brother. If I don't want you for whatever reason, you won't get my vote, and if I really don't like you, then I will lobby my bros to not let you in.
Just becuase a person has a desire to become a member of an org, doesn't mean that they will be admitted.
Good luck
MN
[This message has been edited by ManndingoNUPE (edited February 20, 2001).]
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I KOMPLETELY agree with my Frat. If people don't won't you to get in, you won't get in. It's hard but fair and sad but true.
Maybe BGLOs should be color blind, but this world isn't so why should BGLOs play the good samaritan. Seriously, I will not discourage you either. Go for it. The harder it is the better you will appreciate it.
Nevertheless, I am ALSO curious to know why you are interested in an organization with representatives who (you think) don't like you. If they don't like you, join something else. Just pledge (I mean go through the intake process for those of you who are unaware and continue to hate
the beautiful and sacred practice of pledging) Me Phi Me Sorority Incorporated. They will never turn you down.
No matter what your race is....
[This message has been edited by Bobby Earl (edited February 21, 2001).]