Not even at the graduate level? This may sound like a stupid question, but I made a hasty, unthoughtout decision to join this fraternity who gave me a bid, and now I regret it.
I was raised thinking I was going to be a Kappa Alpha Psi, and planned on pledging my sophomore year. In the meantime, a bunch of my friends joined a "white" fraternity and they were really cool guys, so I joined. I have only seen two Kappas on the entire campus so even though I had always wanted to be one, it became kind of an "out of sight, out of mind thing". Now its as if there is no way out. I'm deactivating.