UGH! What a harsh thing to do! We all change over time (Hell, I used to like MC HAMMER pants! Don't shoot me for that!), so it's not at all an accurate measure of anything about the person you are interested in. Also, judging someone based on ANOTHER PERSON is a very juvenile and immature way of living. If you like that person, LIKE THEM and do not concern yourself with their past unless they have a child, a substance issue or mental problems or unless they choose to share it with you!
It's ok to have a high opinion of yourself, as long as you try to see others in the same good light! There is a difference between self confidence and arrogance. Arrogance roots itself in insecurity and your comment smacks of insecurity. You base your self image on the people you associate with and obviously judge others the same way. Not a good way to live...
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