Oh! I got it. I hear it and think that that would be very thoughtful.
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Originally posted by Rain Man
SummerChild, you and I are actually on the same wavelength as to what I am trying to make a point on, we are just not quite
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I am in essence doing what I am doing, and not really caring what anyone else says or thinks; the perm is still there, and I still love it.
My point on getting rid of it is that I would only get rid of it if I was in a committed relationship with a woman and she absolutely despised it and insisted that I get my hair cut; I would then get rid of it to be a blessing to her. Thereby, I would be sacrificing/forsaking something I really liked and enjoyed for the benefit of her happiness and to be a blessing to her, not because I was "living for other people"
Your post was on the right track; it just indicated the wrong motive for why I would've gotten rid of it.
Thanx for the psychology lesson 
Have a good one.
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