im in the not when but if it happens boat. if it happens, it happens, but in the mean time, i've got to get through college and grad school, and those are bigger concerns to me than marriage.
i'm planning on keeping my last name (i have awsome initials, in my own opinion), so i can still use my monograms and whatnot.
ps - valkyrie - you're not odd
i grew up in the suburbs (of chicago) in a very republican community, in the "traditional" family, and i feel the same way