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Originally posted by Rain Man
Originally posted by AKA_Monet
Hey, what is up with the very, skurry needs a new curl, permed out mullet, dude... That like went out in the Reagan administration... 
I do not have a mullet, yall. Just a perm (redone as of Sunday night) Please see the latest entries of pics in the Look At Me thread.
Rainman, lets be honest, you want honey without the bees... You cain't be swangin' the hottest chick and you ain't flashin' major cash or looking "smoove, suave and deboner" (a husband euphemism). And it don't matta how clean you are, 'cuz there's some luser chick that lovvveddd them some former Miami Dolphins Ricky--had his kid, too...
You on the other hand, ain't swinging it like dat, dere... So, if you want the big ticketed, endowed women who wear 6 inch heels, you are gonna have to step it up a notch, or two... That's what I am talking about when I say taking risks...
The only "big-ticketed" *LOL* endowed women I would think about (heavy on the "think about") taking risks for is Toccara Jones (America's Next Top Model).
You can be your inquisitive self as much as you want. But, if you ain't footin' the bill, then you can't go where the playas go..
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So, your problem is you either don't know what to do and need a caring female opinion that is not your mama's or auntie's. Or you want your hair full on matted--which is fine--but you reap what you sow... You ain't gonna get the one you look for if you refuse to take a risk and change a bit...
I have taken risks and changed, but nothing came of it; I was just a "weird nerdy boy with a nice haircut". My mentality is, "If you don't like me now, why should I change for the sake of illusionary pipe dreams that you will like me later?"
True change comes from within, not from without
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RainMan, here's an idea - forget everyone else in the whole world. Leave the past in the past, stop worrying about how your mother wouldn't let you get a perm, stop worrying about whether women like the perm or not and therefore you must rebel against them - and just focus on the present and the future, and WHAT IS IN YOUR HEART. Do you *still* want to wear a perm or is that what you are doing in stiff rebellion to everyone (your mother, women who don't like it)? If you do, then do and let that be the end of it. If you don't, then get rid of it and stop living for other people. Whether you know it or not, if you act based upon what someone did or didn't let you do in the past or based on whether someone will or won't like your hair today, you are being controlled - even if you profess rebellion to all control. Your rebellion is the manifestation of the control.
Whew! Alright, the psychology lesson is over.
Have a good night RM,
SC