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Originally posted by RedefinedDiva
Since becoming a member, do you feel that more guys try to holla at you? Do you attract a greater number of men that are members of fraternities, as they may better understand "greek life", i.e. what it means to be a member of a BGLO, what AKA stands for, your commitment to AKA, etc.?
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When I became a member in undergrad, the number of guys tryng to approach me decreased! Well the number decreased but with that decrease in number was the decrease of "challenged" men who just holler to holler. More "distinguished" gentlemen hollered , I guess the scrubs knew this is a serious young lady, and she has no time for games. When I didn't have any para on or was just out, no the same people as always hollered. I think though I would bend over backwards to "keep it real" I did not want to be labeled as some stuck up AKA, so even today I get alot of guys who tell me they are surprised I am an AKA.
I guess class intimidates some......