I haven't read the whole thread yet but I just had to put in my thoughts real quick before I forget them.
First of all I hardly know any fraternity guys. I know it's terrible to stereotype so I will try not to do that. But for the most part...I think the ones I DO know are players. I have been fawning over a Sig Ep for a year now. It started as a love-hate relationship that was primarily based off the fact that our former high schools were rivals in football.
Funny, but one night he and I were alone when he started to make his move to kiss me and we were interupted. Well ever since, and that was in like March, he talks about it. I'm like thinking to myself...why don't you ask me out then. But NO. Instead he pops up online and will chat and stuff and be all like HEY LETS GO OUT, and then the next time he's online he won't say but two words to me. I've tried being just blunt about my feelings and then I've tried playing hard to get. So I think he's just a typical GUY and the fact that he's in a fraternity just makes it that much more amusing.
Now to the funniest part. My father, who was a Sig Ep, kinda backs up my statement that fraternity guys are players because when he was in college he was dating three girls at the same time...ONE of them being my MOTHER. I couldn't believe it when she told me the story. It didn't piss her off...she just laughs and said she won the prize. I guess she's a lot more forgiving than I would have been. Oh well. That's all I know and I'm sure the same could be said about sorority girls.
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