Ummm . . . I think most of you ladies have made it perfectly clear that you do, in fact, know what college-age guys want - ie not a serious relationship . . . this is then followed up with "(Fraternity) Guys don't know what they want, which makes them hard to date."
I don't know what to tell you all - there's plenty of great guys running around, and a lot of them are in fraternities . . . seek 'em out, they're there, i promise! Just realize, many guys aren't into getting very serious, b/c at this age we can't deal with that. Hey, it's better to be up-front with this than to spring it on ya once you've picked out baby names and all that crap (which, btw, has happened to me . . . it was weird, i won't lie)!
I think the point is that we all have to realize that, just because guys don't necessarily want the same thing as girls, this doesn't mean that they don't know what they want (and vice-versa i suppose). Instead of limiting your potential dating situations by providing 'conditions' that need to be met, instead we should probably all try to be flexible in our desires (although not in our needs - sometimes hard to discern) for our significant others, and things will usually work out far better.
maybe.
-Rob
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