Unfortunitaly, those days are gone!
With the advent Hamburgers, Chicken Wings doused in BBQ sauce, etc. it is tough to show proper eating habits. That and along with speed eating to get and go, all is lost.
I went through the same thing with Mom Buck who was the House Mother for SX when I was once a pledge. Always think fondly of Her and all of the forks, knives, and spoons laid out at each setting.
Basically, anymore people dont really give a damn as dont eat in really uppercrust resturants anymore unless you are the snob money types and want to impress others.