Depending on where you are in terms of colonization or chapter incorporation, and what your sorority's governing documents state, your may or may not be able to come back. That would be the first thing to check, if it at all possible. I think the next thing would be to check out the circumstances, one on one, and then include the entire group in on the details as appropriate. Sometimes some highly personal things happen, which make people walk away....I saw this happen more than once during our colonization. Some did come back, in different ways, others did not. It largely depends on their situation, and the setup of the sorority.
Hope that helps!
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