[33girl]

re the original situation, if only 1 chapter is at total and everyone else is below (significantly below) - and it's been that way for quite a while and (this is the important one) there are not many women being cross-cut or dropping out of rush - the largest chapter needs to put on their big girl panties and deal with it and stop being so selfish. If they don't want to act panhellenically they shouldn't be in a Panhellenic sorority.

Like Dee said, NPC isn't supposed to be about survival of the fittest. It's supposed to be about the whole system. Voting down a proposal to lower total is one thing, but going to the other groups' HQs and whining to try and get your way is going too far. They really need to think about how this is making them look and what it is doing to Greek unity.

This isn't a slam against Alpha Phi in any way. If a chapter of my own sorority was acting this way, I'd say the exact same thing.