Originally posted by AKA_Monet
Hey, what is up with the very, skurry needs a new curl, permed out mullet, dude... That like went out in the Reagan administration... 
I do not have a mullet, yall. Just a perm (redone as of Sunday night) Please see the latest entries of pics in the Look At Me thread.
Rainman, lets be honest, you want honey without the bees... You cain't be swangin' the hottest chick and you ain't flashin' major cash or looking "smoove, suave and deboner" (a husband euphemism). And it don't matta how clean you are, 'cuz there's some luser chick that lovvveddd them some former Miami Dolphins Ricky--had his kid, too...
You on the other hand, ain't swinging it like dat, dere... So, if you want the big ticketed, endowed women who wear 6 inch heels, you are gonna have to step it up a notch, or two... That's what I am talking about when I say taking risks...
The only "big-ticketed" *LOL* endowed women I would think about (heavy on the "think about") taking risks for is Toccara Jones (America's Next Top Model).
You can be your inquisitive self as much as you want. But, if you ain't footin' the bill, then you can't go where the playas go..
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So, your problem is you either don't know what to do and need a caring female opinion that is not your mama's or auntie's. Or you want your hair full on matted--which is fine--but you reap what you sow... You ain't gonna get the one you look for if you refuse to take a risk and change a bit...
I have taken risks and changed, but nothing came of it; I was just a "weird nerdy boy with a nice haircut". My mentality is, "If you don't like me now, why should I change for the sake of illusionary pipe dreams that you will like me later?"
True change comes from within, not from without