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Originally posted by MissOh2Cute
I feel bad for women who aren't too sure about joining the chapter and still go ahead with Initiation. I know as recently as last semester we had a womn initiate who wasn't extremely active during her pledge period and she seemed unsure so we talked to her and wanted to make sure it was for her and she was positive with her decision. She assured us she was, and then a semester later she resigned.  It just makes me really sad.
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I'm not sure why you're worried about it - a pledge period is a time when someone should decide for themselves whether they want to affiliate or not. If at the end of the time someone affiliates and has second thoughts about it later, that's their own issue. At some point you have to take responsibility for your actions. You can't go through life making decisions haphazardly (new jobs, new homes, etc.) and then deciding that it's not the choice for you.