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Originally posted by Rain Man
That has been THE biggest challenge in me finding a suitable Black American mate: Can you THINK?
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My post wasn't in regards to what you deal with outside of GC.
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Originally posted by Rain Man
It seems to me that while I prefer Black American women, I probably won't get one b/c in my experience, too many of them are too quick to put me in the "friend" zone b/c I don't meet their criteria of what they want in a man (yes, I am short--5' 6"). Whereas foreign women see me for who I am and accept it.
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Why are you searching for a suitable American when you have Foreigners (read: African and Caribbean) that you relate better to? What makes the American more preferable to end up with?
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Originally posted by Rain Man
To make a long story short, do you really want a man, or do you want a living breathing fantasy?
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So we aren't allowed to prefer tall men without mullets, but you can prefer Americans to Foreigners?
I don't like the way this thread is turning into women being too picky and that's why they are having a hard time finding a mate. I'm pretty sure the women have no problems finding guys and while they may not be perfect, the women will work with them. The problem could be these guys are in turn searching for their own fantasy or don't want a commitment. They want all the perks and benefits of a committed relationship, but don't want the label.