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Originally posted by allsmiles_22
There's a difference between being able to and wanting to. The latter is the reality while you choose to see the former.
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I guess my whole point about college educated foreign women being better able to relate to me than college educated American women b/c of my "I challenge you to THINK" persona comes down to this:
Foreigners see college as a means to get knowledge (critical thinking)
Americans see college as a means to get over (job, more money).
Yes, I'm oversimplifying, but it is to prove a point.
Therefore, foriegn women are probably more apt to accept my persona because the need to think critically has been better ingrained in them from their cultural upbringing.
That has been THE biggest challenge in me finding a suitable Black American mate: Can you THINK?
OTOH, it is probably the reason why I prefer older women as opposed to women my age or younger.