....good points! Well said! (and yes, I had a happy holiday)
As far as educated sistas not wanting to be questioned and challenged, I thought that college was to teach you precisely that.
I mean no harm (and you probably already know this) when I ask those probing, challenging questions that I am very famous for here on GC. My objective on GC is to get folk to THINK critically, rather than react radically. And as college educated individuals, IMHO we should be better equipped and able to do this.
Edit: I had more to say about this, but I would be seriously hijacking the thread, but I agree wholeheartedly with your points.