Oof, my cousins are all married now, and I get that "So where is
your boyfriend?" thing all the time.
I smile, and tell them (politely) that he is in Fort Wayne with his family where he belongs. I also tell them that he and I go to school together 8 months out of the year and I prefer to spend the holidays catching up with my family and other friends.
Being nice generally shuts them up.
