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Originally posted by Taualumna
Guys:
Let's say you're dating a fairly attractive girl who is, say, mid 20s. She tells you that not only is she a virgin (face it, most 20something virgins have done other things), but she hasn't gone past French kissing anyone and has only kissed 5 men in her life. Would you think that she's "too pure"? She is a virgin not because of religious belief, but beause she never really had the opportunity to do it.
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bringing this back to the original question as a lot of people obviously didn't read it.
There is a BIG difference between conciously preserving your virginity and still being a virgin because of lack of opportunity. I mean, I've never bought anything from Neiman Marcus because we don't have one here...not because I'm morally opposed to Neiman Marcus.
It might freak the guy out a little bit at first, but if the girl shows that she is willing to explore and learn with him I'd bet he'll be fine with it. If the guy walks away because of it, it's probably better for her not to be with him to begin with.