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If you feel strongly that your sorority violated your personal rights, hazed you and/or otherwise coerced you, you have an obligation to report it to:
1) your chapter adviser
2) the campus greek adviser
3) the sorority's national headquarters
Collegiate chapters sometimes suffer a breakdown in common sense, and bad things happen. You have an obligation to speak out and help both yourself and the chapter to heal. Talk to your family and close friends. It helps to be near people you've had a strong rapport with when you're feeling down. Those people will help you to be happy again and empower you to do the right thing by holding the sorority accountable for misleading you, hazing, etc.
If that is what has happened. You have posted conflicting stories on Greek Chat.
Per your other post about transferring: If you are transferring to a university where there is not a chapter of your sorority, you are granted alumna status (in most cases).
Once you have been fully initiated into an NPC or NPHC sorority, you may not join another NPC or NPHC sorority.
However, there are many other opportunities to find your niche on campus. Get involved with intramural sports, student government, the school newspaper, community service organizations, pre-professional and honor societies, special interest clubs, and more.
Greek Chat has given you all the answers you requested. It is up to you now to determine 1) if hazing went on and if you will report it, 2) if you will be transferring and making the arrangements to settle on the new campus (where no, you may not pledge or initiate another NPC/NPHC because you are already an initiate of another and 3) getting on with your life.
I recommend if you plan to stay around this message board that you "lurk" for a while and observe. And change your screen name. You haven't made a strong impression here. We don't support hazing, but we also don't support shady stories or pity parties. We've helped you out based on your questions. Now you have to log off the Internet and actually act on something. Good luck.
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