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Old 07-23-2001, 10:20 PM
AlphaSigLana AlphaSigLana is offline
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Kevin,
i decided I am going to try to take the first step more often. I have talked to a lot of guys who said they wish they didn't always have to make the first move. I know it will be hard because I don't want to be rejected, but I figure at least I will be making myself a stronger person- because I am initiating and even if I get turned down- I can know it isn't a personal insult against me-I read in my other book"Why do I feel I need a man to survive" That only we can validate ourselves. no one else can make us feel worthy. I admit my self-esteem is low and I often base my emotions on whether I am single thus this equals hurt in the long run because I am not validatig myself. I am letting others determine my emotions/ worth. This is why relationships fail.
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