Each sex is so busy trying to attract the opposite sex they don't take time to do the things they enjoy in life bc they are on a chase that leads nowhere. If people took the time to do things that interest them they will be more likely to find someone. I read this in a book" If I'm so Wonderful Why am I Single". The author didn't exactly say the above, but it was similar. Plus people need to smile more- one suggestion she has is to sit alone in a coffee shop every time a person comes in smile big and say hello- this makes people feel inviting. People need to stop waiting for someone else to make the first move. Smiles attract. Even if you are a wallflower like me you can still make others feel warm by smiling and if they smile back start a conversation.
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