These are my thoughts on this. Granted its a tough situation but if it was me and I was girl LOL(which I'm not) I would talk to your friend. I say this because you brought the subject up about the guy and you obviously have feelings for the guy. If time passes and your friend develops feeling for the guy It might effect you and it might be more difficult to keep your friendship with your girlfriend. Thats if you still wanted to pursue the guy. I agree with 33girl to a point. Not all friendships(even the best ones) make good relationships. In time it might effect your friendship in a bad way. But then again thats looking at it with a glass half empty
I say talk to your friend when shes next available and get it off your chest. Thats if your still thinking about the guy. If not then I say move on and just consider him as a friend. That way they'll be no regrets.
Kevin
[This message has been edited by Miami1839 (edited July 23, 2001).]