because we have rush/pledging only once a year (thank the good Lord above for that) it's harder to change the face of a chapter, simply for the rush numbers/time between pledge classes. Fortunately the changes we are seeing on campus are all positive. There is one fraternity on campus that historically REFUSES to mix with anyone BUT a particular sorority, but during this year, their members have been showing up en masse at UGGB meetings, IFC, greek-wide meetings, and they made a good showing at Greek Week. There is another fraternity on campus 1) you're never sure if they are or aren't. 2) they never wear letters 2) they've never mix with most of the sororities, as in they have NEVER had a mixer with some of the houses since my school was founded. However, their pledgemaster called our ast. pledge mistress and was really enthusiastic about setting up a mixer with us during pledging. Their members have also been signing up for more leadership stuff on campus and I've seen more of them in letters. It will be interesting to see how many people I know from that house that I never knew were brothers there! Good job boys
as for the girls...the stereotypes are a bit more vicious. The guys have a saying and they'll never let us know which chapter is which, but here goes..
123 the girls you date
456 the girls you sleep with
abc the girls you marry
cde the girls you are friends with
xyz the girls you take home to mom
hjk the girls you avoid