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Greek Life isn't for everyone.
That doesn't make someone less of a person for not being offered a bid. If you've gone through recruitment multiple times at your university and have not been offered a bid through informal or formal recruitment, then get involved with another activity. Find your niche, and be happy. Who knows? From there Greek life may become part of your life! But if the conventional means aren't bearing fruit after multiple tries, put it on hold for a while and move onto something else! You deserve to find a group where you are a good fit and where you are happy!
Sororities vary from chapter to chapter and campus to campus. For whatever reason you haven't gotten the bid you wanted, accept at some point you're a better fit in another organization and join one of the 100s of clubs and societies at your school. There's no sense in repeatedly attempting to join any kind of organization where you don't fit.
Good luck! And if I'm to get flamed for advising people to make themselves happy in lieu of beating a dead horse, then flame away!
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