Ok, I did get a bid and I got it on my first try. For those who do not know my story...I dropped out after 8 months for many reasons. However, as I started the next semester I totally regretted it. Trojangirl, I kind of went your route. I got super involved in campus and did some super cool things. Like being a part of one organization that got to decide on which famous people could come on campus to perform or guest speak. Of course, after I dropped out I still remained in my service fraternity and dedicated tons of time to it (we were rechartering). Even after all of that, those experiences fell waaaaaay short of the sorority experience. Nothing can substitute it at all. If I had the chance I would've transferred (since I wanted to transfer in the first place!) to give it a second try. HOWEVER, if you keep on getting cut time after time, especially at a non-competitive school, I think it is time to look within yourselves to see what the hell is wrong (either with you, or with the sororities - which is unlikely).
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