Keep those suggestions coming!!
Thanks for everything so far! There are some great ideas here and several to think about.
We are pretty good about controlling her diet and how much sugar/caffeine she has every day. Her amount of sleep is pretty consistent as well.
Major battles: getting dressed in the morning ( once we are dressed, she wants to change or does not want to get dressed)
"smart mouth disease"--tried playing the Christmas present card on her this weekend...( her daddy did) and she turned to him and said "Fine..I'll take your Christmas presents back then..."
Her school uses a "behavior chart" where the students get a sticker on their individual chart each day they don't have to have a "timeout", are following direction, sitting, etc. I've been thinking of using this at home.