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Originally posted by carol9a
Then how do you know where you belong?
Starang, you said you knew you wanted to pursue Iota, how did you know right off the bat?
//THANK YOU to everyone who answered my question. The reason for the curiousity is because one sister of a LGLO sorority knew that I planned on rushing them next semester and just telling me about future events. One of her friends is a guy who wants to join a NPHC fraternity and he made a big deal about how they cant even hint about what fraternity they are interested in or they get into BIG trouble. So it started this whole discussion about differences in all the recruitments of all the sororities and fraternities. Hmm..good conversation.
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UGH!! I think it's silly that people can get into BIG TROUBLE about telling a sorority whether or not you're interested. I think it depends on how an interested person approaches you. If they're bold and they come up to you (this really happened to one of my prophytes) and gives you a b-day card that was signed "from your future sigma soRHORs," or if someone comes up to you (this really happened to me) and tells you "I have decided that i think i want to be a sigma how much will it cost" then I could see how that could cause some trouble. But if you just come to all the programs and you have your stuff together and you let someone know respectfully that you're interested then i don't see the problem. The only thing is when you tell a member that you're interested that's like telling the whole campus because if after that you decide to do something else please believe that everyone will know that you wanted to do something else first. That's just the way it is. The greek world is a VERY small one.