My sentiments exactly.
Stardusttwin, we are on the same page. If you can't do what you are supposed to do, I can't continue to finance nothing other than the basics.
Nikki1920, my 5 year old is responsible for keeping his room clean daily. I mean nothing on the floor, under the bed, desk clean. I hang his clothes up only because he can't reach that high. He even tries to make his bed. Of course, I have to go behind him but at least he knows it has to be done.
These things start early and so do the consequenses of not doing them.