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Originally posted by sambadoll
I just wanted to put in my comment of alpha phi omega, that I feel that no matter how much 'research' you try to do, I find it hard to choose a sorority based on what you can find by what other people say, or stats on their membership and fundraising. Choosiing a house is so incredibly personal, I know for me personally, I can't see anything other than how I feel when I'm with the sisters as influencing my decision. I never quite understood how someone could choose a house before you even met them.
It's like choosing a boyfriend. He can have tons of money or hard working, but doesnt mean he's right for you till you see each other for a bit.
I suppose the question is what is research? Not just alpha phi omega, either, bc I've seen this on the rush forums before so I'm curious.
And can some one please text me and help me on how to create a signature?
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Well maybe I can help you understand the NPHC thing a little more. We aren't just joining a chapter, I understand that this is the same in the NPC but it's a different mindset, and most of us know and respect the national body as a whole. The chapter is our means of introduction and entry into the organization. We don't have houses, for the most part, so living with one another is not really a concern. Getting along with one another and being able to work with various types of women is important to us though so yes some of us may be turned off by the chapter but very few of us would let that stop us from pursuing the national body which we are committed to forever (if you are thinking along very traditional lines in the NPHC).