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Originally posted by rho4life
Anyway, to me, this is an illustration of what can happen when you have kids out of wedlock. They don't receive anything from the "alleged" father's estate unless he has a will or has otherwise provided for them through a trust, or some other mechanism. How can you be mad at her for looking out for HER OWN kids before she looks out for anybody else . That's what a good moma does, she takes care of her kids.
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As true as that may be, you KNOW if your man has babies with other women. Even if it's just a rumor, that suspicion stays in the back of your mind. Of course you are gonna look out for kids, but to go as far as cremating a man just to prevent the other kids from establishing paternity and seeking money from his estate is a bit evil. Of course she should solidify her own children's financial futures, but why be greedy and take food from other kids' mouths? If that was their father, whether he "claimed" them or not, it still won't change their DNA. She may think that it's over, but it isn't.