I really like this thread! I think that some of us tend to equate weddings with semi-formal and formal date parties. We're used to having a date. I used to get miffed if my invitations didn't say "plus guest." But I've realized over the years that it isn't my call, and I'm there to share in my friends' special day!
But realistically, the wedding is a party where the bride and the groom dictate the guest list. It's THEIR event, and they should invite whomever they please.
However, I do think it only logical if you're attending solo that there should be some opportunity for you to meet other guests prior to the wedding, through the pre-wedding events. Esp. if you're coming from out of town and know only the bride/groom.
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