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Originally posted by PrettyKittieJ
And your friends are exactly right and I think that you are bold in making the decision to NOT do something that was historically black.
My thing is - and I have admitted this - that I did look at some of the sororities in the NPC - but I just wasnt okay with the fact that I might not get into the sorority of my choice and that I had to pick 3 and even after I rushing I may not get in...
Whereas when it comes to the frat I am in now and the NPHC sorority that I may decide to pledge - they are both organizations that I researched and decided that it was something that I wanted to do...
What would I do if I wanted to Pledge Delta Zeta or Kappa Delta (the two I was looking at...) and I picked them and Alpha Omicron Pi....and I researched all of them and figured that I would/could fit into either of them and then didnt get picked for any? Isnt that like a slap in the face?
I dunno = thats why I want someone to explain this to me....
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Im Done! ;-)
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I have researching alot about historically white sororites and i am just now starting to better understand. as you may know researching sorority info in general is a lot of reading but at my university, which is in the south, the system of picking pleges in "white" sororites isthe same as u described, pick three and maybe you'll get your first or second choice....i know many people that didnt get their top sorority and pledge the second choice and are today very happy they did. and then there are the stories of those simply picking the second or third choice for the sake of just being in a sorority. as for me i didnt go through formal recuitment at my school but i am going through spring informal recuitment and its with my top sorority so that gets rid of the worries about me having to pick and second or a third choice becuz if the dont accept me then thats fine no hard feelings i will go from there....