[shadokat]

Oh for the love of Pete. # 1, I am far from the prude or conservative on this board. #2, the events that men want to have to get guys to come to their houses sometimes are just wrong. Women wrestling in oil? Please. If these are the types of men you want in your fraternity James, that's fine by me. I think you may need to go back and read the mission statement of Kappa Sigma though to see that you're living up to the ideals of your fraternity with this event...for example:

The Fraternity should promote ethical behavior and decision-making.

The lessons taught from Fraternity ritual should be incorporated into the daily lives of the members. Kappa Sigmas are expected to act as gentlemen at all times, and the Fraternity must demand the highest standards of personal conduct. The Fraternity should instill a sense of responsibility and integrity. The dignity of all persons shall always be respected; intolerant or abusive behavior cannot be tolerated.