[sambadoll]

I'd have to agree, and I like the perspectives I'm seeing here. Perhaps I am too concerned about reasons for this or that.
I also really appreciate the story about visting another phi psi house, that one shouldn't be apprehensive.
I think I was just trying to point out, that while it's great that some don't view respective brothers/sisters as anything but that, apprehension is still there for others, like me.
Like I've said, my sisters love me and we joke and it's all cool. I realize, although I think more so now that I've asked other opinions, it may be an insecurity. It's a growing up process. But I don't believe that it's not an issue for all people either. I suppose it doesn't matter. You go where you feel comfortable, and if that issue makes you feel that uncomfortable, then you just wouldn't go there.

And also,
I made this name a long time ago, when I was a big bossa nova nut. So 'samba' is in reference to the dance.