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I'm going to have to echo what the other women have said about maybe taking a moment to consider what you are doing and why. It's not unheard of that women consider more than one NPHC org before joining HOWEVER to describe one as your "heart" and then opting for another based on your interaction with ONE member seems ill advised. Primarily because it not only takes a lot of work to get into the sorority but it will take a lot of your time and patience and finances to maintain that membership. If you are already opting for choice number 2 it seems like it would be even more difficult for you to maintain that commitment.
And I'm not going to ask what school you attend but you may want to talk to the greek life office on whether or not transfer students have to wait a year before attempting membership (they did with almost all of the schools around me in undergrad, HBCU and PWI) because most of them want you to have X number of hours at your CURRENT institution before considering you. It's good that you are thinking but you need to seriously evaluate your interest in both organizations before applying to either.
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