As far as drinks go, I usually stick with Red Bull Vodkas, nuts & berries (milk or cream, frangelico, chambord), and chambord 7's. Mango Malibu & Crans are good (FYI for everyone else because I know you don't like Rum).

As far as shots go, I dig Chilled Crowns w/ a splash of sweet sour, STPs (midori, peach schnapps, splash of 7 and splash of pine juice), or brown sugars. You can ask greeklawgirl, squirrely girl, and AXJules about my shots later! Enough Brown sugar shots will also kick your ass:

Splash of midori, butterscotch schnapps
Parrot Bay
Pine Juice
Strawberry Stoli
Watermelon Pucker...all shaken chilled

I know you can't drink rum, but you can't taste the Parrot Bay at all.