Last year in my chapter, we just brought back Candlelight. One of the sisters put an anonymous note in the president's mailbox to let her know that it needed to be done at the meeting. We all got in a circle and passed a candle around 3 times. If you blew it out the first time, it meant you were lavaliered. If you blew it the second time, it means you were pinned. And if you blew it out the third time it meant you just got engaged (whether or not the guy was in a frat).
It was really cute when this happened. The girl had told her little, who gave her flowers once Candlelight was over and we all gawked over the ring.
I think the tradition is so cute!
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