We had several of our sisters' little biological sisters come up to visit and party. Let me assure you that they were NEVER left by themselves, out of sight of their big sister, or permitted to go home with a guy, no matter how much we trusted the guy in question.
If you can't make the commitment to take care of your sibling - especially if she's inexperienced with going to parties - don't allow her (or him, for that matter) to come visit you.
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Her position is don't go voluntarily in harm's way, don't borrow trouble, be aware of circumstances, be aware of your ability (or inability) to tolerate alcohol, choose your actions (and companions) wisely and dont winge if your skirts are not clean, but if after taking full responsibility for your own actions something inappropriate still happens then nail the sob's hide to the jail house door.
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This is what it's about - be responsible for yourself. We see nothing wrong with saying "don't drive through so and so neighborhood after dark" and "don't eat at Joe's, 10 people have gotten food poisoning there." I see no difference in saying "don't get drunk at a party full of horny men you don't know."