My sister used to do this to me when I was 15 and she was 14. I wanted to wring her neck. My mother put a lock on my door, and I was the only one with the key.
There also might be an underlying problem. Ask her if she needs new clothes for college. She might be embarrassed to tell you that she needs new clothes because she has changed sizes. Maybe she just doesn't have enough clothes. Or maybe the clothes that she has aren't as fashionable as her sister's.
As far as her entering your house without your permission and taking clothes, talk to her. Tell her that she has a week to return all of the items or replace them or you will change the locks. It might scare her into returning them.
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