If she's coming into the house and taking clothes without permission while no one is home, sounds like its time to for her to lose house key priviledges.
Her sisters should confront her and explain why she's no longer welcome to borrow their clothes anymore.Cut her off completely. Also she has 3 days to return the things she's taken or pay to replace the missing items if they are not in good condition.
They can tell her you and Mr. Carnation approve this decision.
As for getting access to her dorm room call the dorm director of her building explain as her parent you need get some items from her room that she borrowed from you and are unable to get ahold of her. I've never known administrators to deny a parent access to their child's room.
In the boyfriend apt., call the boyfriend and ask if he or roomate will be there at a arranged time and explain you need to pickup clothes she borrowed because they need to be drycleaned.Or get their permission to have the building manager let you in.
Good luck.
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