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		| Originally posted by SKEEphistAKAte And videotaping it? When do you feel the urge to pull out a videotape of someone's funeral to watch it? How does that happen?
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 I didn't know it at the time, but my mother's funeral was videotaped.  I am actually looking forward to seeing it.  Her Pastor's eulogy was beautiful and everyone told me that the words I spoke were so touching.  I wrote my remarks out, but ad libbed quite a bit and don't remember much of what I said.    I saw my mom, but I was adament that the casket would be closed before the family went in.  No final "parting glance" and folks trying to climb in the casket for us.  We had already said our goodbyes by that point.