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Originally posted by Diamond Delta
Do not overlook women because YOU think they wouldn't be interested. You can never tell someone else what they would be interested in. Some people are just shy and would never approach you (I was one of those people). But if you approach them, they are so gung-ho! [/B]
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I TOTALLY agree with this. I remember in my rush workshops in undergrad we always talked about how some women are intimadated for whatever reason by women in a sorority. Also I remember that there were girls who joined who were tomboyish or not the Barbie-doll sorority girl stereotype but after they became sisters, had a huge boost to their confidence, and their true beauty began to shine through. A lot of them appearance-wise did a complete 180. Also always remember not to ever talk about negativity and pettiness of the chapter around your friends that are not in the sorority. I had a lot of really good girlfriends in undergrad that said they would have loved to join but knew about some drama and just didn't want to get involved because of that.