It would be helpful to maybe do a search on here to find out any posts about the particular culture (especially in reference to rush/recruitment) at your daughter's school. I echo everyone else who posted above me when I say that advice for large, southern schools does not apply everywhere else. I go to a small Northeaster school and up until I joined GC I never even heard of recommendations, or girls buying white dresses before even going through rush, or having to pay to rush, or any of that. It just doesn't apply to my school. Good luck to your daughter!
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