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Originally posted by WVU alpha phi
I really don't think the number of sisters or brothers in your org matters. Personally, I'm not best friends with all 100 of my sisters. Sure, we all go out together and I care about each and every one of them, but I wouldn't say I'm equally close to all of them. This could be true in a sorority or fraternity of just 40 people. It's all about personalities, and you aren't going to be best friends with every single person just cuz you wear the same letters. If 200 girls want to call themselves best friends, more power to them.
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This is incredibly true. I was in a chapter of 25. There were girls in my house I just wasn't especially close to, and that was fine with me.
I think asking us to "prove" closeness is ridiculous. It's not mathematical. What's closeness? Knowing every sister's favorite color and shoe size, or seeing your sister crying because her fratty boyfriend just dumped her and going to comfort her with a box of Kleenex and a hug?